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My students often bring things to my attention that stick.  It’s one of the gifts of reading their papers.   One of the students in our spiritual direction program noted that some clergy are suspicious of spiritual direction.  She quotes one pastor who observes,

“I fear that the gift of so-called spiritual director is just another guru-gimmick which sources spirituality in religious opinions, teachings, and practices that are utterly foreign to Holy Scripture, and such a source of spirituality will not promote the unity of faith amongst believers, as does the legitimate gift of pastor-teacher, but a diversity of beliefs revealing that all the spiritual directors and listeners are being ‘tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine.’”

My student cited the author of this observation and I confess that I don’t know him.  So, I have no way of knowing what his real motives or fears about spiritual direction might be.  Here is what I hear, however:

One, uniformity of belief is an indication that someone is on the appropriate spiritual path.  God only works in one way and variation is suspect.

Two, spiritual direction and spiritual directors operate by their own lights and they are unaccountable to Scripture.

Three, the only legitimate dispenser of spiritual wisdom is the pastor-teacher.

Here is what is wrong with the views expressed above:

One, uniformity of belief might be comforting to us, but God does not seem particularly concerned about it.  There are undoubtedly core beliefs that are defining for Christians, but there is also some considerable variation in belief and — more importantly — experience.  God can be pretty unorthodox.

Two some spiritual directors pay little attention to Scripture.  But Christian directors do pay attention to Scripture.  In fact, directors often use Scripture as a means of suggesting prayer practice and meditations for their directees; and some of the oldest traditions in spiritual direction (for example, the Ignatian approach) relies upon Scripture to frame its understanding of the spiritual life.

Three, the fact that someone is a spiritual director does not mean that they are worthy of your trust.  But the same could be said about “pastor-teachers.”  The issue is not title or calling.  The issue is one of spiritual accountability.

Anyone who calls himself or herself a spiritual director but acts like a guru is not worthy of your trust.  But the same could be said of a pastor-teacher who acts like God.

2 Responses to “Gurus and Gods: On Spiritual Direction”

  1. Jill says:

    I have had two money grubbing sprititual directors (fees, fees and oh, can you pick up my rent), directors who want me to achieve their goals (go on mission trips and teach for them in the programs they’ve developed – really?), others who are just about as interested in spiritual direction as my sheltie and then those that never have the time or can only see you at impossible times. I have given up on “Spiritual Direction”. It is elusive and in my opinion, not worth the effort. I spent several years trying to find a spiritual director to seriously direct me spiritually and I finally realized that the pursuit is simply not worthy my time or energy. Sorry to be such a downer but what’s a seeker to do?

  2. fwschmidt says:

    Ouch….keep looking. Genuine interest in spiritual deepening, like yours, is out there and so are directors who get it.

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